Summer Sunday

“Okay, everybody stand together nicely and smile for Mom!”

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Overheard

Rebecca: “Girls, it hurts my heart when you argue like this.”

Ava: “Maybe you have mild tachycardia.”

Wynken Blynken And Nod

When I was little, my very favorite book was one Gramma Great read to me frequently—Wynken Blynken And Nod by Eugene Field. I’ve loved it since, in part because it reminds me of time spent with Gramma, but also because the imagery is so, so lovely.

The poem, a Dutch nursery rhyme, is in the public domain, so I’ll share it here.

Wynken, Blynken, and Nod one night
Sailed off in a wooden shoe—
Sailed on a river of crystal light,
Into a sea of dew.
“Where are you going, and what do you wish?”
The old moon asked the three.
“We have come to fish for the herring fish
That live in this beautiful sea;
Nets of silver and gold have we!”
Said Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

The old moon laughed and sang a song,
As they rocked in the wooden shoe,
And the wind that sped them all night long
Ruffled the waves of dew.
The little stars were the herring fish
That lived in that beautiful sea—
“Now cast your nets wherever you wish—
Never afeard are we”;
So cried the stars to the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

All night long their nets they threw
To the stars in the twinkling foam—
Then down from the skies came the wooden shoe,
Bringing the fishermen home;
‘T was all so pretty a sail it seemed
As if it could not be,
And some folks thought ‘t was a dream they ‘d dreamed
Of sailing that beautiful sea—
But I shall name you the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

Wynken and Blynken are two little eyes,
And Nod is a little head,
And the wooden shoe that sailed the skies
Is a wee one’s trundle-bed.
So shut your eyes while mother sings
Of wonderful sights that be,
And you shall see the beautiful things
As you rock in the misty sea,
Where the old shoe rocked the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

Gramma lent me her copy of the book when Ava was born, or maybe even before. The book belonged to my mother—I know this because she scrawled her name on a many of the worn pages. This copy now sits high on Livie’s shelf, out of reach of the most recent grandchild (who happens to have have a penchant for both markers and general destruction).

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I memorized the book more than nine years ago, reading it over and over to a baby who seemed only to sleep while she was being rocked. It became part of our nightly ritual, along with a couple of other books and a few favorite songs. We even found a gorgeous edition at our local bookstore—this one, we keep on the bookcase.

I recited the poem to Olivia each night when I rocked her, too. Though those days are sadly long past, she still requests it at least once a week at bedtime.  I hadn’t thought much about it until she brought this home on Mother’s Day.

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And now, though I’ve already shared the words with Owen only an hour or so before, when I tuck in sweet Olivia, I can barely make it through the first verse with dry eyes. I’m so glad to know she loves this as much as I do.

Thanks, Gramma, for introducing us to the most perfect of poems.

Overhead: Empathy comes with age

I left work today in teeth-clenching, eye-twitching state. I expressed this to the girls on the way home, saying that I wanted to find a way to relax ahead of what was going to be a fun night—Bryan returns from a long trip away, Katie and Tom are joining us for dinner, and we’re expecting good storms this evening.

I said that I was feeling anxious and stressed, and I asked if they had any suggestions to feel happier—music? Dancing? After I poured my heart out to these two little people, I received two responses.

The first, from Olivia: “I have an owie in my nose.”

The second, from her older (and perhaps wiser) sister: “Well, first, you could stop reading work emails at night. Then, you can go home, take off your heels, and sit on the deck with a drink. Maybe look at shoes online.”

When I caught her eye in the rearview mirror, she said, “What? I know you.”

Indeed.

Owen fix

Sunday morning breakfast on the deck with a pretty cute little companion…

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Throwback Thursday

Here’s a sweet little photo Doug shot during the Christmas holiday in 2008.

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For comparison’s sake, here are Ava and Olivia handing out programs at my cousin’s wedding last weekend.

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Overheard: Owen edition

Nearly every time he sees Bryan: “Hi, buddy!”

During thunderstorms (which prompt tight snuggles): “Noise! Outside! Rain!”

Counting: “One, free, free, five, free, free, one.”

In response to hearing his name called (and this is definitely the fault of his sisters): “WHAT?”

When he wants to see a photo we just took of him: “Where cheese?”

While heading toward you with a chair that will allow him access to something he’s not supposed to have: “E’cuse me, peas!”

When requesting a banana (or two) in the morning: “Mah-nah-min-na, mah-nah-min-na.”

At least three times a day: “I poop.” (Standard response: “Great! Go find Daddy!”)

Owen at the park

Big and brave last Thursday afternoon…

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Motherhood 101: Parenting the eldest child

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Last day!

Final day photos lack the finesse shown on the first day…

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