Doug snapped this photo of me and Owen at the pumpkin patch during their visit this weekend.
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26 Sep
September round-up
It seems like it’s been weeks since I’ve posted anything of substance, and I feel like a I owe a bit of an update, at least for the sake of posterity.
I started back to work on the 10th, and while I’m technically working half days, I’m finding those four hours are filled with back-to-back meetings, meaning most days require another four hours of actual work. Happily, this can be accomplished from home, while Owen snoozes on my shoulder. If I do this again, though, I’ll return to work more than a few days prior to our major fall gala and semi-annual board meeting. That proved to be a pretty stressful week with not much sleep. Thanks to a truly capable and talented team, everything went well, even if it could have benefited from slightly more preparation on my part.
Owen’s first weeks at Diane’s daycare have gone very well, too. He’s being spoiled by three two-year-olds and a four-year-old (who is soon expecting a little sibling of her own). Diane reports that Owen is a “perfect” baby, all smiles and never fussy. (By the way, I took Owen in with me when Olivia was seen for a mild ear infection last Friday—the nurses were impressed by his size—15 pounds, 4 ounces!)
Our new schedule was helped by the fact that when Bryan flew the coop for a business trip for a few days, Katie and Tom were here visiting. They were incredibly helpful, and I was very, very sad to see them leave. The girls adore their aunts and uncles, and we’ve really enjoyed the time we’ve been able to spend with our families the last few months.
In other news, the last few weeks have brought a handful of other happenings. Bryan presented at Nerd Nite, a local iteration of a national program that brings experts together with the hippest crowds around. Bryan presented on the chemistry and biology behind methamphetamines and meth addiction as part of a special event surrounding Winter’s Bone, this year’s community reading program selection. He was, in a word, amazing. Some said it was the best Nerd Nite presentation they’d ever, seen, and I can honestly say I found myself completely in awe of him. I’ve known Bryan for almost two decades, but seeing him in this light made me appreciate him in an entirely new way. His talk will be posted online soon, and I’ll share a link then.
We also took a quick trip Wichita recently. I had an alumni event on Saturday morning, and I decided I wasn’t quite ready to be apart from Owen for the nine hours the trip would require. So, we loaded everyone into the Man Van, booked a hotel with a pool and made a weekend of it. We had a great time checking out the zoo and a few other attractions.
Tonight, our community reading program continues—I am having a late dinner with the author of Winter’s Bone, which has to be about the best work assignment I can imagine. Related events continue throughout the week, then we have a relatively quiet weekend, aside from the mountains of laundry currently spilling into the hallway upstairs, and a visit from “the Tom we’ve known for a hundred years.”
I think, overall, things are pretty good. I find myself in one of two states at any given moment: The first is quite self-congratulatory as I think I’m managing this expanding household and it’s responsibilities reasonably well. The second is more like, “Holy shit, I can’t remember the last time I fed the cat.” Things certainly aren’t as calm or organized as they were a year ago this time, but the benefits far outweigh the costs. And, thankfully, the cat is rather vocal.
21 Aug
Dance Fever
Ava and Olivia start ballet, jazz and tap classes this week. The 36-week session culminates with a recital on May 11th, and the girls are already VERY excited. Ava will attend class on Tuesdays, and Olivia will go on Wednesdays.
When we walked into the wardrobe filled with leotards and other apparel, I spied the sparkly pink dress below and just KNEW we wouldn’t be leaving without it. It’s a bit big, but Livie will have some room to grow in the coming months.
The girls already have a few moves of their own, of course.
When I mentioned the classes to my mom, she was reminded of another ballerina and her little sister…
13 Aug
Back to school preparations
26 Jul
Mom and Owen
8 Jul
An exponential increase
I’ve reached that weepy period where Bryan approaches me sweetly but carefully, conducting due diligence on the postpartum depression front. I return his kindness with a rather caustic, “I just had a baby—I’m allowed to cry.” Sometimes, it’s tears of frustration, wherein the admittedly minor aches and pains and lack of sleep catch up with me during a weak moment. Other times, I can’t help but be overwhelmed by the sheer intensity of the love I feel for this new little being.
When I was pregnant with Olivia, I recall being very concerned that I wouldn’t have the capacity to love her as much as I loved Ava. The idea of it seemed unfathomable. It was remarkable to find that the addition of a new baby somehow resulted in an exponential increase in that extraordinary emotion. Not only could I love Olivia as much as Ava, but my love for Ava grew in those moments she took on her role as big sister. I loved Bryan more as I watched him snuggle up with both of his daughters.
And, in all three additions now, I’ve found that my love and gratitude for my own mother has grown beyond what I ever thought possible. The capacity just continues to increase, and my heart swells over and over again.
Owen is so fortunate to be part of an extended family that includes some of the most generous and caring people I’ve ever met. We are so grateful for our parents, grandparents, siblings and friends. And, of course, we’re grateful for Owen himself, who helped us prove once again there’s no capacity limit on love.
27 Jun














