Archive for June, 2014

Happy birthday, Bryan!

Today is Bryan’s 36th birthday. Some of us began celebrations quite early this morning, which explains the little tantrum below…

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The girls and I did a bit of shopping to prepare on Saturday. Bryan’s sort of hard to buy for—he rarely admits to wanting anything, and he insists you not spent too much. So, we gathered an assortment of his favorite things: cool socks (constellations, and a pair that says “Bad Ass” with an arrow pointing up–Ava suggested these were more appropriate for the weekend than for work),  a gift card to the record store, assorted beers, his favorite fancy soaps (really!), and a few other little things that hopefully remind him how much we love him.

The girls and I talked a lot about him while we were out and about. They absolutely adore him, and not just because he’s so easily charmed. He’s funny and attentive, and he’s warm and kind. He always gives them the benefit of the doubt, and perhaps most importantly, he wants to be sure they have a whole lot of fun.

Owen loves his dad so much I think it might make my heart burst.  He runs to the door when he hears the garage, hollers “My Daddy!” when I give Bryan a hug, and calls him “buddy.” They snuggle up on the couch and snooze together when Owen wakes up at night. They might be best friends.

Bryan’s had a hell of a year at work, with more good things to come. The “Bad Ass” socks are truly fitting—this guy is owning it. He’s flying all over the country (hopefully something that comes easier to him with every trip), and he doesn’t miss a beat at home. He’s on top of it all in a very big way.

I am incredibly proud of him.

 

 

Summer Sunday

“Okay, everybody stand together nicely and smile for Mom!”

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Overheard

Rebecca: “Girls, it hurts my heart when you argue like this.”

Ava: “Maybe you have mild tachycardia.”

Wynken Blynken And Nod

When I was little, my very favorite book was one Gramma Great read to me frequently—Wynken Blynken And Nod by Eugene Field. I’ve loved it since, in part because it reminds me of time spent with Gramma, but also because the imagery is so, so lovely.

The poem, a Dutch nursery rhyme, is in the public domain, so I’ll share it here.

Wynken, Blynken, and Nod one night
Sailed off in a wooden shoe—
Sailed on a river of crystal light,
Into a sea of dew.
“Where are you going, and what do you wish?”
The old moon asked the three.
“We have come to fish for the herring fish
That live in this beautiful sea;
Nets of silver and gold have we!”
Said Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

The old moon laughed and sang a song,
As they rocked in the wooden shoe,
And the wind that sped them all night long
Ruffled the waves of dew.
The little stars were the herring fish
That lived in that beautiful sea—
“Now cast your nets wherever you wish—
Never afeard are we”;
So cried the stars to the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

All night long their nets they threw
To the stars in the twinkling foam—
Then down from the skies came the wooden shoe,
Bringing the fishermen home;
‘T was all so pretty a sail it seemed
As if it could not be,
And some folks thought ‘t was a dream they ‘d dreamed
Of sailing that beautiful sea—
But I shall name you the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

Wynken and Blynken are two little eyes,
And Nod is a little head,
And the wooden shoe that sailed the skies
Is a wee one’s trundle-bed.
So shut your eyes while mother sings
Of wonderful sights that be,
And you shall see the beautiful things
As you rock in the misty sea,
Where the old shoe rocked the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.

Gramma lent me her copy of the book when Ava was born, or maybe even before. The book belonged to my mother—I know this because she scrawled her name on a many of the worn pages. This copy now sits high on Livie’s shelf, out of reach of the most recent grandchild (who happens to have have a penchant for both markers and general destruction).

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I memorized the book more than nine years ago, reading it over and over to a baby who seemed only to sleep while she was being rocked. It became part of our nightly ritual, along with a couple of other books and a few favorite songs. We even found a gorgeous edition at our local bookstore—this one, we keep on the bookcase.

I recited the poem to Olivia each night when I rocked her, too. Though those days are sadly long past, she still requests it at least once a week at bedtime.  I hadn’t thought much about it until she brought this home on Mother’s Day.

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And now, though I’ve already shared the words with Owen only an hour or so before, when I tuck in sweet Olivia, I can barely make it through the first verse with dry eyes. I’m so glad to know she loves this as much as I do.

Thanks, Gramma, for introducing us to the most perfect of poems.

Overhead: Empathy comes with age

I left work today in teeth-clenching, eye-twitching state. I expressed this to the girls on the way home, saying that I wanted to find a way to relax ahead of what was going to be a fun night—Bryan returns from a long trip away, Katie and Tom are joining us for dinner, and we’re expecting good storms this evening.

I said that I was feeling anxious and stressed, and I asked if they had any suggestions to feel happier—music? Dancing? After I poured my heart out to these two little people, I received two responses.

The first, from Olivia: “I have an owie in my nose.”

The second, from her older (and perhaps wiser) sister: “Well, first, you could stop reading work emails at night. Then, you can go home, take off your heels, and sit on the deck with a drink. Maybe look at shoes online.”

When I caught her eye in the rearview mirror, she said, “What? I know you.”

Indeed.

Owen fix

Sunday morning breakfast on the deck with a pretty cute little companion…

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